Aug. 25, 2025
Love, Legacy & Liquidity: How to Protect Your Wealth and Your Relationships

Navigating love, legacy, and liquidity- this episode of Something More with Chris Boyd dives deep into the financial complexities of second marriages, blended families, and estate planning. Chris and Russ Ball explore how to protect your wealth, honor your relationships, and make smart decisions about cash flow, prenuptial agreements, and retirement readiness. Whether you're newly remarried or simply rethinking your financial future, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and actionable advice.
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Welcome to Something More with Chris Boyd.
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Chris Boyd is a certified financial planner, practitioner,
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and senior vice president and financial advisor at
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Wealth Enhancement Group, one of the nation's largest
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registered investment advisors.
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We call it Something More because we'd like
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to talk not only about those important dollar
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and cents issues, but also the quality of
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life issues that make the money matters matter.
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Here he is, your fulfillment facilitator, your partner
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in prosperity, advising clients on Cape Cod and
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across the country.
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Here's your host, Jay Christopher Boyd.
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Welcome, everybody.
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Thanks for being with us for another episode
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of Something More.
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I'm here with Russ Ball.
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We are both of the AMR team at
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Wealth Enhancement.
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Glad to have you joining us.
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We thought we would take today's segment and
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talk about some recent lessons learned.
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We run into so many clients from one
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week to the next, clients or prospective clients,
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people come in for consultations.
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As an aside, if ever you need some
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help, we offer a complimentary consultation, so don't
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hesitate to reach out.
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In any event, we find that there are
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some lessons that we run across from time
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to time, and there might be some things
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we could share.
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Today, that's our focus.
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We've had some interesting conversations, and among them,
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we were talking with some people who are
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going through marriage later in life.
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Sometimes it's a remarriage, sometimes with a second
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marriage, sometimes it's just found someone later in
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life or after a passing for one spouse,
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taking interest in having the possibility of another
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marriage.
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So how should we think about our structure
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in our portfolios or in our estate planning
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more specifically?
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Russ, I was thinking that's maybe where we'll
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start.
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The first thing that comes to my mind
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is when you have blended families.
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We've seen numerous occasions when someone who had
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a family or has a family has a
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second marriage, and they might want, ultimately, their
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new spouse to be cared for with the
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resources of their wealth, while at the same
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time, ultimately, wanting some of their wealth to
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be assured to go to their children.
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Now, sometimes it's blended children, all the children.
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But how that is done, that can be
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largely handled through an estate plan.
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And these situations, I think it's fair to
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say that they can become challenging when there's
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relationships, money, it's kind of oil and water
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sometimes.
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But in my experience, so I'm part of
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a family dynamic like that.
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So my dad had had kids and then
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he remarried and my brother and I are
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a product of that second marriage.
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And I think it's natural that there are
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going to be things that come up.
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And estate planning is a good way to
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confront some of those topics that might be
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challenging to discuss with family.
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Confront sounds maybe, how about navigate?
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Yes.
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But absolutely.
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Right.
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So let's go through some like circumstances.
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What I'm picturing is, okay, I have kids
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from, I don't, but if one did like,
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oh, I have kids from a prior marriage.
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I want to make sure that they get
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some of my resources after I'm gone.
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Right.
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So how do you do that?
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Now, sometimes this can be challenging when someone
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marries their spouse who happens to be notably
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younger, then it could be challenging for when
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will those kids ever see their inheritance, right?
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If they're closer in age to the new
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spouse, in this case, it could be male,
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female, whatever it is, but how that works
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out, it could be challenging.
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So in those instances, maybe there's different types
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of estate planning considerations.
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Maybe you create some life insurance if you're
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eligible and available to create some wealth with
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that in mind to say, well, you may
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not see it for a while, but I
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want there to be something that's given.
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But a certain type of trust document, a
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qualified terminal interest, Q-tip trust can produce
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the arrangements that we might typically want to
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see.
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Something where you say, I want my spouse
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to be able to receive the benefits of
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my wealth while they remain alive, but after
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their passing, this part of the trust goes
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to, and you can direct where that goes.
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Maybe it's kids from a first marriage in
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that scenario.
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You mentioned a situation where in your family
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situation, you're the product of the second marriage.
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Do you have siblings from step-siblings or
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whatever?
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Yeah, I have siblings.
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Have siblings.
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So you could envision that circumstance where, okay,
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well, what happens to the assets after the
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fact?
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Now, what if, as an example, the second
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spouse says, well, I want to go to
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my kids.
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If everything just goes by joint property, it's
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possible that things could be excluded.
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People can be excluded.
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So having the right kind of estate planning
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in place could allow for things to be
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done the way you want it to be
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done.
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And this requires a lot of navigating among
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the family discussion.
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What do we want?
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And what's fair to, in the way you
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want this to be arranged?
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Certainly there can be complexities in thinking that
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through and how to navigate that.
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And I think that's probably why I said
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confront because a lot of the time it
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is very complicated.
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And it could be confrontational.
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It's probably confrontational.
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There are a lot of dynamics at play.
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So we see a lot of times when
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there's no estate plan with all these factors
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in mind because it's so challenging to untangle.
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And how are you going to have this
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conversation among the family might be uncomfortable.
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So you just avoid it.
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And so then there's no real plan in
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place.
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And then it leads to more confrontation later
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on among other family members.
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Another thing that comes to my mind when
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we talk about this topic is the idea
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of when there is this second marriage, are
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assets mingled or are they separate?
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We came across an example recently where there's
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a second family and a second marriage kind
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of situation.
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And this becomes one of those things.
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Is it what's yours is mine and what's
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mine is mine?
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Or is it what's ours?
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How do we navigate these circumstances?
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Do we put everything into joint name of
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some type or whether it's trust or whether
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it's through joint ownership or are we keeping
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segregated wealth?
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This is mine.
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I came into the marriage with this.
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You came into the marriage with that.
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These are decisions that have to be approached
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and discussed and clarified, particularly when there's a
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second marriage involved.
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Brings us kind of to the topic of
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prenuptial agreements.
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I can see at times, I think it
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would be difficult.
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My wife and I did not have a
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prenuptial agreement.
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We both came into the marriage with virtually
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nothing.
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So it really didn't matter.
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But what if you had differences in wealth
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when you come into a marriage?
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I've always kind of had the personal kind
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of view that it seems kind of awkward
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to say, hey, honey, I love you.
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Let's talk about what happens if our marriage
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fails.
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It just seems kind of like it's almost
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predicting failure, which we don't want to do.
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But what are your thoughts about prenuptial agreements?
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Well, certainly not romantic to be going to
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a lawyer's office to sign a prenup or
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whatever.
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But my mom is a lawyer and she's
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always thinking in these terms.
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So definitely has drilled that into my brother
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and my minds growing up.
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I think one perspective is 50% of
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marriages end up not working out.
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I don't know if that's still the statistic.
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I think that's the statistic for first time
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marriages.
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I think it's even higher for second marriages
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that don't work out.
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That don't work out.
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Okay, interesting.
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Well, I think it's just a confrontation of
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the reality that different things can happen.
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And it's not always one person's the enemy,
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one person's a good guy, one person's a
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bad guy.
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But sometimes marriages don't work out.
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And what better time to plan for what
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would happen if other than when you're...
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When you're both caring.
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When you both like each other.
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Rather than confrontational.
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Exactly, exactly.
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We were recently at a seminar from Boyd
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and Boyd.
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And someone asked, what's the best way to
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prevent my assets from going to my daughter
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-in-law, for example, in the case of
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a divorce?
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Oh, yeah.
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And Keats, through trust, there are things you
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can do to try to prevent that from
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happening.
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But Keats did say, the best thing you
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could do is a prenup or a postnup.
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And just legally, that's the most ironclad way.
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And it's probably not the right way to
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say it.
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It's probably not ironclad.
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Yeah, but I follow your point.
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It's probably a sound way to approach it.
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And in the case of estate planning for
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someone worried about their child, their adult child,
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not having to lose the wealth that they
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are intending to have their child inherit to
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a divorce.
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As you mentioned, there are creditor protection features
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within trust that can be utilized that Keats,
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Boyd and Boyd often makes use of in
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their estate planning conversation.
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So that is a good point.
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There are a variety of ways you can
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approach this.
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IRAs tend to be an asset that don't
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go through the estate plan ordinarily.
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But you can have some specialized trusts that
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can help to pursue certain objectives without sacrificing
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the tax deferred status of the IRA features.
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So, okay, gotcha.
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I think that there's some virtue to this
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conversation to do a little planning in advance
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while you care.
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And they perhaps might have an easier time
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finding consensus as to how you want to
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handle things prior to the dissolution of a
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marriage.
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Yeah.
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And like a worst case scenario, how would
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we approach that kind of thing?
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I think sometimes the challenge people run into
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is, as you said earlier, it can be
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a really difficult thing to talk about.
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And like with most things with planning, the
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more that's done in advance, the more deliberate
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we are, the better outcomes we're likely to
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have.
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So whether it's thinking about your financial planning
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in terms of this kind of an issue
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for estate planning, but in the complexities of
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a second marriage, sometimes these can be a
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really important part of your planning.
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Let's talk not about the estate planning component,
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but about the cash flow.
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And we run into this not just with
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really with any kind of marriage or combined
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effort, maybe people living together or whatever it
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might be, but the notion that what do
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I do when I'm bringing more to the
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marriage, right?
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Maybe it's capital, maybe it's wealth rather, maybe
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it's income.
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There's disparities that we run into in how
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things could happen.
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And how does that factor into how we're
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thinking about our cash flow?
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Who pays what?
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Many times we run into families where they
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opt for one bank account.
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Everything goes in and money gets paid out.
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I've talked about this in the past where
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my wife and I, when our kids were
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young, we ended up both writing checks on
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the bank accounts.
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I'm trying to pay a bill.
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She's trying to pay for groceries.
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There can be some challenges of operating out
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of one account with multiple people.
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So sometimes people opt for multiple accounts, two
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accounts.
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But what happens where?
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Which bills get paid from what kind of
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priority?
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Whose money goes into what objective?
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Sometimes people will do three accounts, his, hers,
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and ours.
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So this is a little bit of money
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for your flexible spending, whatever it is, the
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things you want.
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Here's some money for the things I'm going
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to prioritize, but here's our combined efforts.
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So there's all kinds of approaches that we
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see and all of which have practical considerations
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about virtues and drawbacks.
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Any comments about that topic?
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Yeah.
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Well, I've read a lot about the psychology
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around these different considerations and one account, individual
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accounts, the three account solution, his, hers, ours,
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or whatever it is.
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And basically the conclusion I've come to is
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that there is some benefit of having possibly
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three accounts or at least having your own
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individual accounts for something to have some level
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of, this is mine, this is my money
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for doing whatever I want, or just the
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feeling of independence over the course of a
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relationship.
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Because as I said earlier, relationships and money
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are not often seamless, to put it lightly.
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So I definitely would subscribe to the, you
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each have your individual accounts that you came
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into the relationship with, but I do think
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that there is some benefit to having, whether
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it be a credit card that you're both
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using for essentials or a joint account that
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you automatically route some money into where it's
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like, this is a shared expense.
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There's many ways to do it, but that's
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kind of my take.
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I think there is some validity to the
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fact that there is some psychological aspect of
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having some individual account that feels like, all
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right, this is.
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Yeah.
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I think that one of the things I
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would be inclined to do if you do
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the three account approach, which I kind of
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agree there can be merit to that, but
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I would make sure that all of the
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accounts are, or at least I would be
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inclined to suggest have all three of the
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accounts be joint accounts.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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So that if anything were to happen to
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one of you, there's no difficulty in accessing
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the money.
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I also think that you, you know, there's
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transparency in all of this.
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And even though you may say, well, I
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wanted to buy this or that, this is
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for my, you know, I'm using my money,
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so to speak.
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There has to be clarity about that in
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some consensus that we agree that there are
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some things you're going to use your money
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for, and you're going to use money for
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your things.
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And that we've got consensus around the idea
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of that.
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But I think those are maybe good practices.
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When it comes to the whole topic of
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financial planning and whether it's in a married
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situation or not, you know, I think we
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want to come back to the idea that
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financial planning in many respects is simply a
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matter of decision-making.
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It's prioritization.
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It's about having clarity of objectives, having maybe
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in some cases, having shared priorities and goals
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in the process.
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And so there can be challenges that we
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face.
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And we've run into people on the one
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hand, they have plenty of wealth, but they're
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facing retirement and they're in the decision of,
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am I going to work longer or am
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I going to start to spend less?
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Because even though despite having wealth, the forecast
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of things doesn't work the way they'd want
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based on the level of spending they have.
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So, you know, okay, what do we prefer?
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What do we prioritize?
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Do we want to spend less?
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Do we want to work more?
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Do we want to restructure the way our
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wealth is designed?
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There's room for any of the above, right?
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Or some combination.
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Other times we have people who, you know,
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they have an abundance of wealth.
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And so the question becomes, how much is
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enough?
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What's the right number?
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What do we value with the time we
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have?
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How long?
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None of us knows how long we have.
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So we want to be finding that sweet
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spot of how do we have the kind
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of lifestyle that works for us, whether that
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includes work or does not, you know, whether
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work becomes optional or is still valuable.
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People, you know, let's face it, people still
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enjoy their involvement in, you know, the cognitive
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stimulation, the social engagement, the paycheck coming in,
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right?
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All of the above, right?
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So circumstances can be, I still want that
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or no, I don't.
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I'm done.
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I'd like to get out.
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But, you know, so when do you draw
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that line?
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What's the priority?
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We've often talked about, you know, what comes
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next?
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You know, what do you focus on?
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But sometimes the challenge is saying, hey, you've
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got a plan that works.
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You have permission.
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And or, hey, you have to make some
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choices.
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And these are your choices.
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We can give you counsel.
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But and we can help you see how
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much impact does that make?
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If I, what if I do this?
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What if I do that?
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But ultimately, it's a matter of just having
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an opportunity to have shared communication of what
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do we prioritize?
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Yeah.
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I mean, it's definitely more gratifying to be
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able to share, you know, a plan that
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looks beautiful and fabulous.
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Yeah, yeah.
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Fabulous outcomes.
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But, you know, part of this world, part
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of this job is to, you know, have
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this whole plan in place to show people,
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all right, like this is working, this is
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not working so much.
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And to play around with these variables and
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to see, you know, maybe we don't have
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to go to one extreme or the other,
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maybe we could find some sort of middle
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ground that would work.
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And, you know, it's they're difficult choices that
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need to be made, difficult conversations that probably
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have to be had.
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But having the perspective of a big picture
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plan really is beneficial because sometimes when the
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money's coming in and going out and you
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think, well, retirement, it's probably going to work
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out like do a little math.
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Yeah, it sounds about right.
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I got a spreadsheet.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Oftentimes we've talked about this many times before
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is people won't think about all the variables
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that can come into play, all the factors,
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all the expenses.
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If you're not tracking your expenses meticulously, it's
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a very hard thing to get a grasp
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of.
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You might paint a little too rosy a
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picture sometimes because you go, well, let's see,
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we've got the utilities, we've got the mortgage,
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that'll be gone soon.
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We got, you know, if you rattle off
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a few, oh, we spend this much on
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groceries.
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OK.
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But there's probably things you've overlooked, you know.
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Oh, well, we probably do need to spend
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some money on home repairs from time to
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time.
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Oh, we're going to need to buy a
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car from time to time.
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Oh, we're going to fill in the blank.
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Right.
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There's a very rare and sometimes people just
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paint that picture as being too rosy.
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Yeah.
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And especially when we're thinking about retirement, because
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that's you're entering a different stage of your
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life where there are a lot of, you
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know, it's not the same structure as you
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had before.
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It's not just, all right, I'm going to
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go to work, work, come home, get some
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dinner.
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It's you have to create your world around
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you the way that you envision it.
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And so that could mean different expenses.
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Opportunity.
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Yeah.
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Opportunity.
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But, you know, it creates different expectations.
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Maybe you want to take more vacations.
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Maybe you want to spend half the year
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somewhere else, whatever it may be.
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Those are it's not it's not going to
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be a fluid transition right from from working
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life into retirement where your day to day
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is exactly the same.
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We had some people recently talking about the
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idea that they wanted to spend more for
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a while and then slow down.
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Yeah.
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That was interesting.
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I mean, I think and then another instance
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where they similar said we're going to spend
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more now and then we're going to slow
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down and then we're going to slow down
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more.
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You know, so there's all kinds of variables
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that people envision.
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And we I think we're the sounding board
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oftentimes to help them navigate.
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Is that realistic?
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How much are you assuming?
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What I think we should also mention here
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is the idea of stress test.
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So aside from have you thought of some
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of the variables that are often overlooked, we
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also need to say sometimes, hey, you know,
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you've got your numbers, but maybe we should
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include a little extra for health care as
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an example, especially if you're retiring early.
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Right.
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Oh, Medicare won't kick in yet.
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You're going to have some out of pocket
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costs that could be expensive.
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OK, now you're retired at 65.
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OK.
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But health care can grow at a higher
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rate of inflation.
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Let's separate those costs out and adjust them
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at a higher rate of inflation.
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What if you have long term care costs
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at some point, presumably later in life?
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Well, that can be a big drain on
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the wealth.
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Let's look if that works.
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OK, that works great.
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What if we have let's go through some
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of those stress test variables, bad market conditions,
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temporarily disruption?
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What if we have consistently less return than
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we might have expected?
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What if we have consistently higher inflation?
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What if we have less Social Security because
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they don't solve the Social Security problem?
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What if, what if, what if?
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Right.
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And there's a lot of others.
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What if I live longer?
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What if I die soon?
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Higher taxes.
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Higher taxes.
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These are all things we can do with
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some great software, and it's pretty efficient as
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a way to do it.
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It's probably a good idea to get a
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second opinion when it comes to the financial
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planning.
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We look at this as the building block.
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The financial plan is the building block on
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which everything else is supported.
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So it informs how we think about cash
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flow.
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It informs how we structure the portfolio.
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It informs the liquidity, we presume.
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It informs how we think about tax opportunities
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or challenges, right?
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How are we going to improve this tax
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picture, etc.
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So having the, and I think what we
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try to do at Wealth Enhancement, which may
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not be identical to other firms, is we
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try to take an integrated approach to these
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things.
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We look for, the latest thing I think
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people seem to latch onto is tax strategy.
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People are so, I think, hungry for greater
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integration into their planning for tax strategy and
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opportunities, particularly as they get to retirement, thinking,
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how are we going to make this more
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tax efficient?
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And really, it's something you can do at
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any stage to try to improve on that.
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But it's not just that.
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So it's the estate plan.
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It's the tax planning.
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It's the, do we have risk that we
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haven't accounted for?
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How do we mitigate that risk?
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Do we want to try to mitigate that
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risk?
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And so on, right?
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Anyway, I'm rambling.
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Yeah.
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Well, and it's not just about retirement either.
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It's the different milestones you reach in life.
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It's your legacy planning.
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It's how much do I want to save
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for my child or grandchild's college education?
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And how do I go about buying a
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new house or selling a house?
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These are all things that not everyone remembers
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to talk to their advisor about from a
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planning perspective, but that's all part of what
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we do in this part of this integrated
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planning approach.
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We often talk about the idea of a
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family can be an unexpected expense.
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And when we do that, we talk about
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kids usually for the retiree thinking about, oh,
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what if my kids have a divorce or
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the failure to launch or whatever it might
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be?
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But it can work the other way too.
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We've seen in some conversations with clients where
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they're having to figure out how are they
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going to help their parents who have insufficient
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resources navigate their needs for assistance.
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So these are the kind of things that
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we want to put into a plan, make
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sure we can structure it in a way
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that works for you to get an outcome
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that fits your preferences and desires.
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So in any case, Russ, what do you
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think?
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Lots of cover, right?
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Let's just encourage you to think about your
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financial planning and whatever kind of circumstance.
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We started talking about remarriages, but any kind
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of circumstance, these are the kind of variables
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that we want to put together and give
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some thought to.
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And if you need help in that process,
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that's why we're here.
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You can come in for a complimentary consultation
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and we're happy to be a resource to
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you.
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Don't hesitate to reach out to us either
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by phone or by email and let us
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be a resource to you.
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Until next time, everybody keeps striving for something
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more.
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Thank you for listening to Something More with
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Chris Boyd.
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Call us for help, whether it's for financial
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planning or portfolio management, insurance concerns, or those
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Whatever's on your mind, visit us at somethingmorewithchrisboyd
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You're listening to Something More with Chris Boyd
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Financial Talk Show, Wealth Enhancement Advisory Services and
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Jay Christopher Boyd provide investment advice on an
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individual basis to clients only.
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Proper advice depends on a complete analysis of
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all facts and circumstances.
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The information given on this program is general
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financial comments and cannot be relied upon as
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pertaining to your specific situation.
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Wealth Enhancement Group cannot guarantee that using the
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information from this show will generate profits or
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ensure freedom from loss.
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Listeners should consult their own financial advisors or
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conduct their own due diligence before making any
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financial decisions.
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Welcome to Something More with Chris Boyd.
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Chris Boyd is a certified financial planner, practitioner,
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and senior vice president and financial advisor at
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Wealth Enhancement Group, one of the nation's largest
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registered investment advisors.
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We call it Something More because we'd like
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to talk not only about those important dollar
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and cents issues, but also the quality of
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life issues that make the money matters matter.
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Here he is, your fulfillment facilitator, your partner
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in prosperity, advising clients on Cape Cod and
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across the country.
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Here's your host, Jay Christopher Boyd.
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Welcome, everybody.
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Thanks for being with us for another episode
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of Something More.
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I'm here with Russ Ball.
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We are both of the AMR team at
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Wealth Enhancement.
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Glad to have you joining us.
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We thought we would take today's segment and
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talk about some recent lessons learned.
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We run into so many clients from one
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week to the next, clients or prospective clients,
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people come in for consultations.
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As an aside, if ever you need some
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help, we offer a complimentary consultation, so don't
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hesitate to reach out.
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In any event, we find that there are
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some lessons that we run across from time
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to time, and there might be some things
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we could share.
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Today, that's our focus.
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We've had some interesting conversations, and among them,
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we were talking with some people who are
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going through marriage later in life.
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Sometimes it's a remarriage, sometimes with a second
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marriage, sometimes it's just found someone later in
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life or after a passing for one spouse,
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taking interest in having the possibility of another
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marriage.
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So how should we think about our structure
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in our portfolios or in our estate planning
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more specifically?
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Russ, I was thinking that's maybe where we'll
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start.
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The first thing that comes to my mind
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is when you have blended families.
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We've seen numerous occasions when someone who had
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a family or has a family has a
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second marriage, and they might want, ultimately, their
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new spouse to be cared for with the
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resources of their wealth, while at the same
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time, ultimately, wanting some of their wealth to
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be assured to go to their children.
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Now, sometimes it's blended children, all the children.
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But how that is done, that can be
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largely handled through an estate plan.
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Yeah.
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And these situations, I think it's fair to
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say that they can become challenging when there's
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relationships, money, it's kind of oil and water
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sometimes.
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But in my experience, so I'm part of
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a family dynamic like that.
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So my dad had had kids and then
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he remarried and my brother and I are
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a product of that second marriage.
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And I think it's natural that there are
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going to be things that come up.
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And estate planning is a good way to
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confront some of those topics that might be
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challenging to discuss with family.
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Confront sounds maybe, how about navigate?
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Yes.
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But absolutely.
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Right.
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So let's go through some like circumstances.
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What I'm picturing is, okay, I have kids
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from, I don't, but if one did like,
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oh, I have kids from a prior marriage.
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I want to make sure that they get
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some of my resources after I'm gone.
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Yeah.
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Right.
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So how do you do that?
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Now, sometimes this can be challenging when someone
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marries their spouse who happens to be notably
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younger, then it could be challenging for when
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will those kids ever see their inheritance, right?
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If they're closer in age to the new
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spouse, in this case, it could be male,
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female, whatever it is, but how that works
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out, it could be challenging.
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So in those instances, maybe there's different types
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of estate planning considerations.
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Maybe you create some life insurance if you're
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eligible and available to create some wealth with
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that in mind to say, well, you may
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not see it for a while, but I
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want there to be something that's given.
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But a certain type of trust document, a
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qualified terminal interest, Q-tip trust can produce
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the arrangements that we might typically want to
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see.
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Something where you say, I want my spouse
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to be able to receive the benefits of
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my wealth while they remain alive, but after
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their passing, this part of the trust goes
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to, and you can direct where that goes.
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Maybe it's kids from a first marriage in
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that scenario.
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You mentioned a situation where in your family
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situation, you're the product of the second marriage.
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Do you have siblings from step-siblings or
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whatever?
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Yeah, I have siblings.
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Have siblings.
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well, what happens to the assets after the
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fact?
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spouse says, well, I want to go to
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my kids.
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possible that things could be excluded.
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People can be excluded.
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So having the right kind of estate planning
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in place could allow for things to be
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done the way you want it to be
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done.
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the family discussion.
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What do we want?
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And what's fair to, in the way you
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want this to be arranged?
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Certainly there can be complexities in thinking that
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through and how to navigate that.
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confront because a lot of the time it
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is very complicated.
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It's probably confrontational.
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There are a lot of dynamics at play.
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So we see a lot of times when
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there's no estate plan with all these factors
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in mind because it's so challenging to untangle.
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And how are you going to have this
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conversation among the family might be uncomfortable.
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So you just avoid it.
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And so then there's no real plan in
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place.
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And then it leads to more confrontation later
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on among other family members.
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Another thing that comes to my mind when
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we talk about this topic is the idea
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of when there is this second marriage, are
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assets mingled or are they separate?
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a second family and a second marriage kind
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of situation.
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And this becomes one of those things.
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Is it what's yours is mine and what's
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mine is mine?
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Or is it what's ours?
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How do we navigate these circumstances?
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Do we put everything into joint name of
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some type or whether it's trust or whether
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it's through joint ownership or are we keeping
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segregated wealth?
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This is mine.
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I came into the marriage with this.
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You came into the marriage with that.
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These are decisions that have to be approached
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and discussed and clarified, particularly when there's a
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second marriage involved.
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Brings us kind of to the topic of
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prenuptial agreements.
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I can see at times, I think it
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would be difficult.
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My wife and I did not have a
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prenuptial agreement.
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nothing.
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So it really didn't matter.
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But what if you had differences in wealth
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when you come into a marriage?
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I've always kind of had the personal kind
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of view that it seems kind of awkward
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to say, hey, honey, I love you.
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Let's talk about what happens if our marriage
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fails.
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It just seems kind of like it's almost
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predicting failure, which we don't want to do.
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But what are your thoughts about prenuptial agreements?
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Well, certainly not romantic to be going to
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a lawyer's office to sign a prenup or
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whatever.
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But my mom is a lawyer and she's
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always thinking in these terms.
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So definitely has drilled that into my brother
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and my minds growing up.
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I think one perspective is 50% of
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marriages end up not working out.
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I don't know if that's still the statistic.
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I think that's the statistic for first time
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marriages.
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I think it's even higher for second marriages
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that don't work out.
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That don't work out.
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Okay, interesting.
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Well, I think it's just a confrontation of
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the reality that different things can happen.
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And it's not always one person's the enemy,
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one person's a good guy, one person's a
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bad guy.
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But sometimes marriages don't work out.
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And what better time to plan for what
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would happen if other than when you're...
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When you're both caring.
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When you both like each other.
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Rather than confrontational.
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Exactly, exactly.
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We were recently at a seminar from Boyd
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and Boyd.
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And someone asked, what's the best way to
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prevent my assets from going to my daughter
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-in-law, for example, in the case of
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a divorce?
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Oh, yeah.
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And Keats, through trust, there are things you
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can do to try to prevent that from
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happening.
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But Keats did say, the best thing you
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could do is a prenup or a postnup.
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And just legally, that's the most ironclad way.
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And it's probably not the right way to
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say it.
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It's probably not ironclad.
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Yeah, but I follow your point.
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It's probably a sound way to approach it.
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And in the case of estate planning for
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someone worried about their child, their adult child,
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not having to lose the wealth that they
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are intending to have their child inherit to
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a divorce.
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As you mentioned, there are creditor protection features
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within trust that can be utilized that Keats,
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Boyd and Boyd often makes use of in
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their estate planning conversation.
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So that is a good point.
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There are a variety of ways you can
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approach this.
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IRAs tend to be an asset that don't
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go through the estate plan ordinarily.
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But you can have some specialized trusts that
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can help to pursue certain objectives without sacrificing
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the tax deferred status of the IRA features.
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So, okay, gotcha.
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I think that there's some virtue to this
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conversation to do a little planning in advance
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while you care.
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And they perhaps might have an easier time
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finding consensus as to how you want to
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handle things prior to the dissolution of a
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marriage.
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And like a worst case scenario, how would
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we approach that kind of thing?
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I think sometimes the challenge people run into
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is, as you said earlier, it can be
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a really difficult thing to talk about.
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And like with most things with planning, the
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more that's done in advance, the more deliberate
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we are, the better outcomes we're likely to
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have.
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So whether it's thinking about your financial planning
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in terms of this kind of an issue
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for estate planning, but in the complexities of
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a second marriage, sometimes these can be a
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really important part of your planning.
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Let's talk not about the estate planning component,
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but about the cash flow.
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And we run into this not just with
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really with any kind of marriage or combined
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effort, maybe people living together or whatever it
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might be, but the notion that what do
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I do when I'm bringing more to the
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marriage, right?
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Maybe it's capital, maybe it's wealth rather, maybe
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it's income.
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There's disparities that we run into in how
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things could happen.
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And how does that factor into how we're
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thinking about our cash flow?
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Who pays what?
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Many times we run into families where they
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opt for one bank account.
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Everything goes in and money gets paid out.
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I've talked about this in the past where
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my wife and I, when our kids were
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young, we ended up both writing checks on
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the bank accounts.
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I'm trying to pay a bill.
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She's trying to pay for groceries.
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There can be some challenges of operating out
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of one account with multiple people.
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So sometimes people opt for multiple accounts, two
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accounts.
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But what happens where?
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Which bills get paid from what kind of
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priority?
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Whose money goes into what objective?
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Sometimes people will do three accounts, his, hers,
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and ours.
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So this is a little bit of money
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for your flexible spending, whatever it is, the
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things you want.
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Here's some money for the things I'm going
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to prioritize, but here's our combined efforts.
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So there's all kinds of approaches that we
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see and all of which have practical considerations
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about virtues and drawbacks.
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Any comments about that topic?
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Yeah.
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Well, I've read a lot about the psychology
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around these different considerations and one account, individual
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accounts, the three account solution, his, hers, ours,
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or whatever it is.
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And basically the conclusion I've come to is
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that there is some benefit of having possibly
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three accounts or at least having your own
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individual accounts for something to have some level
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of, this is mine, this is my money
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for doing whatever I want, or just the
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feeling of independence over the course of a
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relationship.
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Because as I said earlier, relationships and money
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are not often seamless, to put it lightly.
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So I definitely would subscribe to the, you
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each have your individual accounts that you came
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into the relationship with, but I do think
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that there is some benefit to having, whether
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it be a credit card that you're both
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using for essentials or a joint account that
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you automatically route some money into where it's
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like, this is a shared expense.
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There's many ways to do it, but that's
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kind of my take.
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I think there is some validity to the
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fact that there is some psychological aspect of
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having some individual account that feels like, all
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right, this is.
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I think that one of the things I
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would be inclined to do if you do
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the three account approach, which I kind of
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agree there can be merit to that, but
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I would make sure that all of the
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accounts are, or at least I would be
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inclined to suggest have all three of the
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accounts be joint accounts.
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Yes.
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Yes.
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So that if anything were to happen to
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one of you, there's no difficulty in accessing
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the money.
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I also think that you, you know, there's
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transparency in all of this.
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And even though you may say, well, I
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wanted to buy this or that, this is
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for my, you know, I'm using my money,
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so to speak.
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There has to be clarity about that in
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some consensus that we agree that there are
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some things you're going to use your money
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for, and you're going to use money for
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your things.
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And that we've got consensus around the idea
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of that.
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But I think those are maybe good practices.
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When it comes to the whole topic of
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financial planning and whether it's in a married
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situation or not, you know, I think we
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want to come back to the idea that
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financial planning in many respects is simply a
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matter of decision-making.
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It's prioritization.
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It's about having clarity of objectives, having maybe
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in some cases, having shared priorities and goals
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in the process.
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And so there can be challenges that we
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face.
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And we've run into people on the one
397
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hand, they have plenty of wealth, but they're
398
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facing retirement and they're in the decision of,
399
00:18:44,140 --> 00:18:47,580
am I going to work longer or am
400
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I going to start to spend less?
401
00:18:49,940 --> 00:18:54,040
Because even though despite having wealth, the forecast
402
00:18:54,040 --> 00:18:56,620
of things doesn't work the way they'd want
403
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based on the level of spending they have.
404
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So, you know, okay, what do we prefer?
405
00:19:02,060 --> 00:19:02,980
What do we prioritize?
406
00:19:03,560 --> 00:19:05,300
Do we want to spend less?
407
00:19:05,840 --> 00:19:07,460
Do we want to work more?
408
00:19:07,900 --> 00:19:10,180
Do we want to restructure the way our
409
00:19:10,180 --> 00:19:11,540
wealth is designed?
410
00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:15,800
There's room for any of the above, right?
411
00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:17,220
Or some combination.
412
00:19:17,840 --> 00:19:21,460
Other times we have people who, you know,
413
00:19:21,780 --> 00:19:24,200
they have an abundance of wealth.
414
00:19:24,500 --> 00:19:27,440
And so the question becomes, how much is
415
00:19:27,440 --> 00:19:27,840
enough?
416
00:19:28,420 --> 00:19:29,760
What's the right number?
417
00:19:30,360 --> 00:19:33,420
What do we value with the time we
418
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have?
419
00:19:33,960 --> 00:19:34,320
How long?
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None of us knows how long we have.
421
00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:39,660
So we want to be finding that sweet
422
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spot of how do we have the kind
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00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,560
of lifestyle that works for us, whether that
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includes work or does not, you know, whether
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work becomes optional or is still valuable.
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People, you know, let's face it, people still
427
00:19:55,680 --> 00:20:02,220
enjoy their involvement in, you know, the cognitive
428
00:20:02,220 --> 00:20:06,900
stimulation, the social engagement, the paycheck coming in,
429
00:20:06,940 --> 00:20:07,160
right?
430
00:20:07,780 --> 00:20:09,000
All of the above, right?
431
00:20:09,100 --> 00:20:12,560
So circumstances can be, I still want that
432
00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:13,300
or no, I don't.
433
00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:13,820
I'm done.
434
00:20:13,900 --> 00:20:14,740
I'd like to get out.
435
00:20:14,900 --> 00:20:16,760
But, you know, so when do you draw
436
00:20:16,760 --> 00:20:17,440
that line?
437
00:20:17,940 --> 00:20:18,860
What's the priority?
438
00:20:19,000 --> 00:20:20,700
We've often talked about, you know, what comes
439
00:20:20,700 --> 00:20:21,120
next?
440
00:20:21,220 --> 00:20:22,420
You know, what do you focus on?
441
00:20:22,940 --> 00:20:27,540
But sometimes the challenge is saying, hey, you've
442
00:20:27,540 --> 00:20:28,440
got a plan that works.
443
00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:29,540
You have permission.
444
00:20:31,840 --> 00:20:34,440
And or, hey, you have to make some
445
00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:34,940
choices.
446
00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:37,240
And these are your choices.
447
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,480
We can give you counsel.
448
00:20:40,620 --> 00:20:42,980
But and we can help you see how
449
00:20:42,980 --> 00:20:44,220
much impact does that make?
450
00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:45,460
If I, what if I do this?
451
00:20:45,500 --> 00:20:46,180
What if I do that?
452
00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:50,640
But ultimately, it's a matter of just having
453
00:20:50,640 --> 00:20:53,940
an opportunity to have shared communication of what
454
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do we prioritize?
455
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Yeah.
456
00:20:57,860 --> 00:21:00,880
I mean, it's definitely more gratifying to be
457
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,420
able to share, you know, a plan that
458
00:21:02,420 --> 00:21:04,100
looks beautiful and fabulous.
459
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:04,940
Yeah, yeah.
460
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:05,640
Fabulous outcomes.
461
00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:09,680
But, you know, part of this world, part
462
00:21:09,680 --> 00:21:12,180
of this job is to, you know, have
463
00:21:12,180 --> 00:21:14,260
this whole plan in place to show people,
464
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:15,900
all right, like this is working, this is
465
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not working so much.
466
00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:20,040
And to play around with these variables and
467
00:21:20,040 --> 00:21:22,220
to see, you know, maybe we don't have
468
00:21:22,220 --> 00:21:23,480
to go to one extreme or the other,
469
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:24,740
maybe we could find some sort of middle
470
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ground that would work.
471
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And, you know, it's they're difficult choices that
472
00:21:28,780 --> 00:21:31,020
need to be made, difficult conversations that probably
473
00:21:31,020 --> 00:21:31,760
have to be had.
474
00:21:32,480 --> 00:21:35,600
But having the perspective of a big picture
475
00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:39,520
plan really is beneficial because sometimes when the
476
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money's coming in and going out and you
477
00:21:41,300 --> 00:21:44,380
think, well, retirement, it's probably going to work
478
00:21:44,380 --> 00:21:45,880
out like do a little math.
479
00:21:46,020 --> 00:21:47,640
Yeah, it sounds about right.
480
00:21:47,760 --> 00:21:48,300
I got a spreadsheet.
481
00:21:48,620 --> 00:21:48,800
Yeah.
482
00:21:49,180 --> 00:21:49,280
Yeah.
483
00:21:50,660 --> 00:21:52,600
Oftentimes we've talked about this many times before
484
00:21:52,600 --> 00:21:55,660
is people won't think about all the variables
485
00:21:55,660 --> 00:21:58,980
that can come into play, all the factors,
486
00:21:59,400 --> 00:22:00,500
all the expenses.
487
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,340
If you're not tracking your expenses meticulously, it's
488
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a very hard thing to get a grasp
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of.
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00:22:04,700 --> 00:22:06,380
You might paint a little too rosy a
491
00:22:06,380 --> 00:22:08,560
picture sometimes because you go, well, let's see,
492
00:22:08,580 --> 00:22:10,940
we've got the utilities, we've got the mortgage,
493
00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:12,220
that'll be gone soon.
494
00:22:12,840 --> 00:22:15,880
We got, you know, if you rattle off
495
00:22:15,880 --> 00:22:17,220
a few, oh, we spend this much on
496
00:22:17,220 --> 00:22:17,540
groceries.
497
00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:18,460
OK.
498
00:22:19,180 --> 00:22:22,580
But there's probably things you've overlooked, you know.
499
00:22:24,240 --> 00:22:26,760
Oh, well, we probably do need to spend
500
00:22:26,760 --> 00:22:28,840
some money on home repairs from time to
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time.
502
00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:31,120
Oh, we're going to need to buy a
503
00:22:31,120 --> 00:22:32,260
car from time to time.
504
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:34,140
Oh, we're going to fill in the blank.
505
00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:34,620
Right.
506
00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:37,880
There's a very rare and sometimes people just
507
00:22:37,880 --> 00:22:40,000
paint that picture as being too rosy.
508
00:22:40,280 --> 00:22:40,380
Yeah.
509
00:22:40,640 --> 00:22:42,960
And especially when we're thinking about retirement, because
510
00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:46,240
that's you're entering a different stage of your
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00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,000
life where there are a lot of, you
512
00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:50,680
know, it's not the same structure as you
513
00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:51,100
had before.
514
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,260
It's not just, all right, I'm going to
515
00:22:52,260 --> 00:22:54,800
go to work, work, come home, get some
516
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:55,100
dinner.
517
00:22:55,720 --> 00:22:57,800
It's you have to create your world around
518
00:22:57,800 --> 00:22:59,980
you the way that you envision it.
519
00:23:00,260 --> 00:23:02,320
And so that could mean different expenses.
520
00:23:02,540 --> 00:23:02,820
Opportunity.
521
00:23:02,940 --> 00:23:03,140
Yeah.
522
00:23:03,620 --> 00:23:04,060
Opportunity.
523
00:23:04,420 --> 00:23:07,020
But, you know, it creates different expectations.
524
00:23:07,020 --> 00:23:08,400
Maybe you want to take more vacations.
525
00:23:08,460 --> 00:23:09,660
Maybe you want to spend half the year
526
00:23:09,660 --> 00:23:11,380
somewhere else, whatever it may be.
527
00:23:12,700 --> 00:23:14,700
Those are it's not it's not going to
528
00:23:14,700 --> 00:23:17,580
be a fluid transition right from from working
529
00:23:17,580 --> 00:23:19,920
life into retirement where your day to day
530
00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:20,700
is exactly the same.
531
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:23,260
We had some people recently talking about the
532
00:23:23,260 --> 00:23:25,240
idea that they wanted to spend more for
533
00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,600
a while and then slow down.
534
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:28,280
Yeah.
535
00:23:28,860 --> 00:23:29,880
That was interesting.
536
00:23:30,100 --> 00:23:33,020
I mean, I think and then another instance
537
00:23:33,020 --> 00:23:35,500
where they similar said we're going to spend
538
00:23:35,500 --> 00:23:36,800
more now and then we're going to slow
539
00:23:36,800 --> 00:23:37,840
down and then we're going to slow down
540
00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:38,140
more.
541
00:23:38,920 --> 00:23:40,760
You know, so there's all kinds of variables
542
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:41,900
that people envision.
543
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,700
And we I think we're the sounding board
544
00:23:44,700 --> 00:23:46,360
oftentimes to help them navigate.
545
00:23:46,500 --> 00:23:47,320
Is that realistic?
546
00:23:47,540 --> 00:23:48,580
How much are you assuming?
547
00:23:50,520 --> 00:23:53,320
What I think we should also mention here
548
00:23:53,320 --> 00:23:54,800
is the idea of stress test.
549
00:23:57,020 --> 00:23:59,560
So aside from have you thought of some
550
00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:05,200
of the variables that are often overlooked, we
551
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:08,580
also need to say sometimes, hey, you know,
552
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:13,180
you've got your numbers, but maybe we should
553
00:24:13,180 --> 00:24:15,660
include a little extra for health care as
554
00:24:15,660 --> 00:24:20,160
an example, especially if you're retiring early.
555
00:24:20,440 --> 00:24:20,620
Right.
556
00:24:20,840 --> 00:24:23,080
Oh, Medicare won't kick in yet.
557
00:24:23,260 --> 00:24:24,640
You're going to have some out of pocket
558
00:24:24,640 --> 00:24:26,220
costs that could be expensive.
559
00:24:26,780 --> 00:24:29,920
OK, now you're retired at 65.
560
00:24:30,820 --> 00:24:31,260
OK.
561
00:24:32,920 --> 00:24:35,380
But health care can grow at a higher
562
00:24:35,380 --> 00:24:36,300
rate of inflation.
563
00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:39,380
Let's separate those costs out and adjust them
564
00:24:39,380 --> 00:24:40,580
at a higher rate of inflation.
565
00:24:41,420 --> 00:24:44,360
What if you have long term care costs
566
00:24:44,360 --> 00:24:47,620
at some point, presumably later in life?
567
00:24:48,220 --> 00:24:50,080
Well, that can be a big drain on
568
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,440
the wealth.
569
00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:53,860
Let's look if that works.
570
00:24:54,080 --> 00:24:55,020
OK, that works great.
571
00:24:55,580 --> 00:24:59,060
What if we have let's go through some
572
00:24:59,060 --> 00:25:02,000
of those stress test variables, bad market conditions,
573
00:25:02,660 --> 00:25:04,380
temporarily disruption?
574
00:25:05,060 --> 00:25:07,600
What if we have consistently less return than
575
00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:08,520
we might have expected?
576
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:10,900
What if we have consistently higher inflation?
577
00:25:11,100 --> 00:25:13,720
What if we have less Social Security because
578
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:15,880
they don't solve the Social Security problem?
579
00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:17,920
What if, what if, what if?
580
00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:18,300
Right.
581
00:25:18,700 --> 00:25:20,000
And there's a lot of others.
582
00:25:20,120 --> 00:25:21,000
What if I live longer?
583
00:25:21,100 --> 00:25:22,280
What if I die soon?
584
00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:23,340
Higher taxes.
585
00:25:23,340 --> 00:25:24,480
Higher taxes.
586
00:25:26,460 --> 00:25:28,960
These are all things we can do with
587
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,040
some great software, and it's pretty efficient as
588
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:32,820
a way to do it.
589
00:25:33,120 --> 00:25:34,880
It's probably a good idea to get a
590
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,640
second opinion when it comes to the financial
591
00:25:37,640 --> 00:25:38,060
planning.
592
00:25:38,700 --> 00:25:41,040
We look at this as the building block.
593
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:45,780
The financial plan is the building block on
594
00:25:45,780 --> 00:25:47,700
which everything else is supported.
595
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:50,420
So it informs how we think about cash
596
00:25:50,420 --> 00:25:50,720
flow.
597
00:25:51,400 --> 00:25:53,560
It informs how we structure the portfolio.
598
00:25:53,900 --> 00:25:56,320
It informs the liquidity, we presume.
599
00:25:56,460 --> 00:25:59,720
It informs how we think about tax opportunities
600
00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,960
or challenges, right?
601
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,480
How are we going to improve this tax
602
00:26:05,480 --> 00:26:07,000
picture, etc.
603
00:26:07,700 --> 00:26:12,020
So having the, and I think what we
604
00:26:12,020 --> 00:26:15,160
try to do at Wealth Enhancement, which may
605
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:18,320
not be identical to other firms, is we
606
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,580
try to take an integrated approach to these
607
00:26:20,580 --> 00:26:20,840
things.
608
00:26:21,040 --> 00:26:24,000
We look for, the latest thing I think
609
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,700
people seem to latch onto is tax strategy.
610
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:34,340
People are so, I think, hungry for greater
611
00:26:34,340 --> 00:26:39,060
integration into their planning for tax strategy and
612
00:26:39,060 --> 00:26:42,420
opportunities, particularly as they get to retirement, thinking,
613
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:43,960
how are we going to make this more
614
00:26:43,960 --> 00:26:44,700
tax efficient?
615
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,480
And really, it's something you can do at
616
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,040
any stage to try to improve on that.
617
00:26:51,460 --> 00:26:53,680
But it's not just that.
618
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:54,960
So it's the estate plan.
619
00:26:55,100 --> 00:26:56,140
It's the tax planning.
620
00:26:56,360 --> 00:26:58,780
It's the, do we have risk that we
621
00:26:58,780 --> 00:26:59,940
haven't accounted for?
622
00:27:00,560 --> 00:27:01,960
How do we mitigate that risk?
623
00:27:02,140 --> 00:27:04,600
Do we want to try to mitigate that
624
00:27:04,600 --> 00:27:04,940
risk?
625
00:27:05,820 --> 00:27:07,140
And so on, right?
626
00:27:07,420 --> 00:27:08,720
Anyway, I'm rambling.
627
00:27:08,720 --> 00:27:09,380
Yeah.
628
00:27:09,500 --> 00:27:11,600
Well, and it's not just about retirement either.
629
00:27:11,860 --> 00:27:14,560
It's the different milestones you reach in life.
630
00:27:14,820 --> 00:27:16,280
It's your legacy planning.
631
00:27:16,580 --> 00:27:19,140
It's how much do I want to save
632
00:27:19,140 --> 00:27:22,020
for my child or grandchild's college education?
633
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:24,660
And how do I go about buying a
634
00:27:24,660 --> 00:27:25,760
new house or selling a house?
635
00:27:26,380 --> 00:27:29,680
These are all things that not everyone remembers
636
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:33,340
to talk to their advisor about from a
637
00:27:33,340 --> 00:27:35,780
planning perspective, but that's all part of what
638
00:27:35,780 --> 00:27:38,140
we do in this part of this integrated
639
00:27:38,140 --> 00:27:38,900
planning approach.
640
00:27:39,140 --> 00:27:41,580
We often talk about the idea of a
641
00:27:41,580 --> 00:27:43,620
family can be an unexpected expense.
642
00:27:44,100 --> 00:27:46,020
And when we do that, we talk about
643
00:27:46,020 --> 00:27:49,400
kids usually for the retiree thinking about, oh,
644
00:27:49,420 --> 00:27:52,200
what if my kids have a divorce or
645
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,660
the failure to launch or whatever it might
646
00:27:55,660 --> 00:27:56,080
be?
647
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:59,240
But it can work the other way too.
648
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,880
We've seen in some conversations with clients where
649
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,640
they're having to figure out how are they
650
00:28:05,640 --> 00:28:08,060
going to help their parents who have insufficient
651
00:28:08,060 --> 00:28:12,700
resources navigate their needs for assistance.
652
00:28:13,420 --> 00:28:15,880
So these are the kind of things that
653
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:18,320
we want to put into a plan, make
654
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,020
sure we can structure it in a way
655
00:28:20,020 --> 00:28:22,420
that works for you to get an outcome
656
00:28:22,420 --> 00:28:25,320
that fits your preferences and desires.
657
00:28:26,030 --> 00:28:28,060
So in any case, Russ, what do you
658
00:28:28,060 --> 00:28:28,320
think?
659
00:28:29,360 --> 00:28:30,300
Lots of cover, right?
660
00:28:30,960 --> 00:28:34,740
Let's just encourage you to think about your
661
00:28:34,740 --> 00:28:38,820
financial planning and whatever kind of circumstance.
662
00:28:38,940 --> 00:28:42,060
We started talking about remarriages, but any kind
663
00:28:42,060 --> 00:28:44,260
of circumstance, these are the kind of variables
664
00:28:44,260 --> 00:28:46,800
that we want to put together and give
665
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:47,720
some thought to.
666
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,200
And if you need help in that process,
667
00:28:51,600 --> 00:28:52,780
that's why we're here.
668
00:28:52,780 --> 00:28:55,720
You can come in for a complimentary consultation
669
00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:58,020
and we're happy to be a resource to
670
00:28:58,020 --> 00:28:58,160
you.
671
00:28:58,300 --> 00:29:00,480
Don't hesitate to reach out to us either
672
00:29:00,480 --> 00:29:04,420
by phone or by email and let us
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