Oct. 3, 2025

Who You Gonna Call? ... Not Ghostbusters

Who You Gonna Call? ... Not Ghostbusters

Who You Gonna Call? ... Not Ghostbusters
In this episode of Something More with Chris Boyd, Chris is joined by Jeff Perry and
Russ Ball from the AMR team at Wealth Enhancement. The dialogue begins with brief
commentary on the ongoing Government Shutdown and the potential economic impacts.
Next, they dive into the crucial but often overlooked aspect of financial and estate
planning. The conversation focuses on organizing your assets and key contacts for life's
unexpected moments. From digital accounts and estate documents to everyday service
providers and emergency contacts, they explore how a simple “Who to Call” list can
make a world of difference for your loved ones. The trio reflects on insights from our
recent webinar with Digital Wrangler Kate Huffnagle - check the show notes for a link!
Whether you are the one managing the household finances or just want to ensure your
family is prepared, this episode is packed with practical advice to help you get organized
and stay ready.
#FinancialPlanning #EstatePlanning #DigitalLegacy #WealthManagement
#ChrisBoyd #WealthEnhancementGroup #Preparedness #FamilyFinance
#LegacyPlanning
Click the link below to review the recent episode with the Digital Wrangler:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hzaB0ubhqPI&list=PLzxw58ckeLybSvPMh2C7
p9dcRTLuyB3N6&index=69
For more information or to reach TEAM AMR, click the following link:
https://www.wealthenhancement.com/s/advisor-teams/amr

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Welcome to something more with Chris Boyd.

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Chris Boyd is a certified financial planner, practitioner

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and senior vice president and financial advisor at

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Wealth Enhancement Group, one of the nation's largest

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registered investment advisors.

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We call it something more because we'd like

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to talk not only about those important dollar

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and cents issues, but also the quality of

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life issues that make the money matters matter.

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Here he is, your fulfillment facilitator, your partner

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in prosperity, advising clients on Cape Cod and

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across the country.

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Here's your host, Jay Christopher Boyd.

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Welcome everybody.

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Thanks for being with us for another episode

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of something more.

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I'm here with Jeff Perry and Russ Ball.

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We are all of the AMR team at

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Wealth Enhancement and glad to have you here.

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We're going to talk about a variety of

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topics today, specifically we intend to dig into

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a topic that's come up with some clients

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about having that letter in the drawer, the

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where my stuff is.

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But before we do that, I thought we

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maybe should touch on the notion of something

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significant that's evolved in the news and that

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is the government shutdown.

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This is one of those instances where we

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always wonder what will be the market reaction

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and how will things be impacted with the

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consequence of anxiety in the news of something

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significant?

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Will it have a broader economic consequences over

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time or will it get resolved very quickly?

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It does seem to start off where both

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sides seem pretty entrenched in their view.

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Everyone's trying to position so that they're not

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the one getting blamed.

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That's very true, Chris.

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It's your fault.

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It's your fault.

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Yeah.

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And yet another example of government dysfunction, it

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seems.

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No doubt.

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How we worry about what will be the

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budget for the year ahead.

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This is where we start our planning.

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Essentially, this is our fiscal year that started

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in October for the 2026 fiscal budget, I

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guess.

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It seems like this is always perpetually one

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of these things we worry about.

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Will there be a government shutdown?

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And then the other one is when there's

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the debt ceiling.

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Luckily, the debt ceiling has been addressed for

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the moment.

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That was part of OBBA, right?

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I believe so.

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Thank goodness.

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One thing, at least, that's not an immediate

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anxiety's point for the market.

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Chris, can I start with a question for

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you?

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Because you've been watching the market and doing

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financial planning for a couple of years now,

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20 or so.

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Are you surprised by this news or other

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news-like things?

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The market isn't shaken by this so far

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or anything else that in the past-

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It really is surprising to me.

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I share that.

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It sounds like you feel the same way.

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We had a little disruption from tariffs earlier

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in the year, but markets shook that off

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pretty quickly.

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That was like a hiccup.

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Word of the day.

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And then it's just kept on going.

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The Middle East still has its stresses.

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We've had Ukraine and Russia and China and

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everything where it just seems like there's always

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something that's an anxiety point.

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We've had things happening in the news with

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deployment of National Guard and all this.

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At other moments in time, just some of

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these news items would just create some angst.

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And yet, now it just seems to shake

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everything off.

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On the one hand, that's really pleasing as

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someone who manages money for our clients and

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how we navigate those long-term planning and

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so forth, that it's much easier for clients

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to see the long-term when they're not

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seeing big disruptions.

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It's kind of unexpected.

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I almost wonder if traders or retail investors

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or whoever you want to define, the different

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groups, don't believe anything.

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They think everything is subject to change.

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It's posturing, it's politics, it's whatever.

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And so I'm not really going to worry

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about it because it could go away or

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it could get worse.

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And so I'm just going to stay the

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course of however people are evaluating whatever investment

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stocks, for example.

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Well, that may not be inaccurate because so

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far that's kind of been what's happened, right?

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You look at the tariffs as an example

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of that.

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It's a great example, yeah.

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Starts off with this dire, drastic, extreme kind

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of anxiety.

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And basically with China, we were positioning to

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embargo trade with China, the way it was

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being set up.

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more of a negotiating ploy, it seems like,

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than the actual demand.

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And as much as people, they envision this

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bringing a lot of jobs back to the

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United States and perhaps there'll be some benefit

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for that.

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It does seem like it's been more about

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some revenue for the government.

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So now with the shutdown that we're in

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day two of, I guess the first thing

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that, well, it depends if you're a federal

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employee or not.

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Because if you're a federal employee, President Trump

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seems to be using this, whether it's posturing

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or whether it's real, as an opportunity to

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do some of the labor reductions that he

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wasn't otherwise allowed to do.

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So that's kind of the top story of

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the day, I guess.

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And we have other things like, well, we're

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not going to get economic data.

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Well, and the threat that some of these

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jobs may not return, right?

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That's right.

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He's talking layoffs, not furloughs, which is a

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different category that he seems like he can

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legally do.

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Maybe a leverage thing to your point.

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You know, so no financial data, which, you

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know, I think for a week or so

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maybe it's okay.

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But it could be disruptive if, you know,

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how's the Fed monitor things?

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How's the Fed respond to things?

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The Fed's still got jobs, right?

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I don't know.

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Well, one of them does.

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So there's been that Supreme Court case too,

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not related to the shutdown.

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the news related to the shutdown was Secretary

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Besant.

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Oh, you're talking about Cook?

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Is that what you're talking about?

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And she's still got her job.

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Sorry, I didn't pick up on that.

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That's all right.

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People don't pick up a lot of things

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So we've got the layoffs, we've got the

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lack of data.

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news is that Secretary Besant, Treasury Secretary is,

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I don't know, warning's the right word, but

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announcing that if this shutdown is longer term,

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that it could have a negative impact on

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GDP for the quarter.

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That's a concern, right?

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Disruption on employment and the purchasing that goes

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with that.

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Permits and all the things the government-

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Economic slowdown that that can generate.

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That's all these, you know, elements that-

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What do they produce?

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so many things, whether it's regulations or whether

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it's hearings or whether it's permits or whether

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it's, you name it.

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of approving things and those things get stalled.

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significant economic consequences if it continues long term.

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Well, I imagine that's the challenge.

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You know, will we be having this conversation

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a week or two from now, or will

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we be having this conversation a month from

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starting to see some of that kind of

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worry.

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it happens is things kind of just back

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to business as usual and the people whose

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jobs were affected get back pay and-

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It ends up to be a vacation, actually,

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a paid vacation for the workers who are

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- Stressful vacation.

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Stressful vacation.

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And then a lot of- Maybe more

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so this time with the potential for layoffs

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coming.

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posturing, like we said, and it's hard to

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know what's just messaging.

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Just try to get the other side to

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give in on what's actually real.

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But it does seem from some of the

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interviews I've heard that Democrats feel that this

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is their one point of leverage and it

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feels like their heels are pretty well dug

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in, but anything can happen.

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And it's unfortunate that there's political dynamics of

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everyone trying to appeal to their base to

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be seen in a certain way.

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It doesn't seem like it's purely about the

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merits of whatever the spending really is focused

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on.

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It never is, right?

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The emails are out on both sides fundraising

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why they need to get more donations to

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stop or start or whatever the cause is.

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Well, let's turn our attention to what we

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really wanted to talk about today.

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And Russ, I think you were in this

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meeting.

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We had a conversation recently with a client

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and they said something about, oh yeah, I

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have a folder full of stuff that's really

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old.

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I have to revisit that.

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This notion of in the desk drawer where

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my assets are or who to call.

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I thought that would be just a topic

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that would be worth spending a few minutes

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on, Jeff, because everyone should have this.

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It's not something we have as a focal

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point of our planning.

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And yet it's a really important part of

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one's plan, more for the people you leave

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behind in the event of an illness, a

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prolonged illness, or in the event of a

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passing, this question of who do I call?

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Where's our stuff?

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What do I do?

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Maybe Jeff, let's start with what have you

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done?

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Because I know you mentioned you've done some

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of this stuff for your family.

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Yep, absolutely.

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And just a side note, because when you

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mentioned this topic to me today, the first

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thing I thought of was the webinar we

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just did with the digital wrangler.

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Yeah, Kate Hufnagel.

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And that was well received.

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And by the way, if you want to

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check that out, you can find it on

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YouTube or go to our webpage.

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You can find that either by going to

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somethingmorewithchrisboyd.com or wealthenhancement.com slash AMR. Even

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more convenient, I'll throw a link to the

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YouTube video in the show notes.

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So if you're listening and you want to

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just go from us, when we're done, please

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wait.

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Yeah, yeah.

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But that's a great point in terms of

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there's a variety of things that are digital

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based that are, how do I get access

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to?

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Where do I find those things?

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Will you retain the rights to?

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And a little bit of forethought can really

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make a difference there.

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Right.

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I mean, just think 20 years ago, if

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you had a parent pass or your spouse

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became ill or you weren't the one handling

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the money and you needed to figure it

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out, right?

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Where's my stuff?

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What do I do?

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You waited by the mailbox pretty much.

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Because over the next month or quarter, everything's

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coming in the mail to you.

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Assets, liabilities, whatever.

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If there was an insurance policy at some

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point, there'd be a bill or a statement,

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you know, things like that.

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But not always is that the case today.

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I'd say it's a minority of cases.

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I know from you asking me what we

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do, I don't think we get anything official

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in the mail anymore other than advertisements and

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maybe Christmas cards.

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So yes, I have drawn a letter of

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instructions upon my passing.

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Because I'm the one who handles the bills

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and the investments.

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Lisa has a lot of things that she

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does, but that's not one of them she's

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interested in.

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She knows about everything, obviously.

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But one of the basic things is, here

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are our bills.

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Here's how they're paid.

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Here's what to expect.

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And then here are the related passwords to

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these accounts, right?

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And bookmarked.

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It takes a little bit of time to

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pull that together and for you to do

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that right up.

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Sure.

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Absolutely.

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That is incredibly valuable.

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It's an exercise that isn't only, you know,

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in case of my early passing, but it's

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also a good exercise for you to do

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as a person, like the one who's handling

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it to say, these are my bills, when

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are they due?

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And also in that process, I bookmarked all

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of the websites related to those.

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And I did it for Lisa, but I

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also did it for myself because, you know,

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we learn from people when we're talking about

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scams and, you know, how to prevent things

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that if you deal with Bank of America,

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you just don't want to Google Bank of

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America because who knows what's at the top.

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So if you save your bookmarks, if you

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bookmark your legit sites, you just use those

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because, you know, they're going to be safe

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and secure.

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And, you know, you need to have all

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your documents, your estate planning documents, fresh, meaning

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reviewed and that they're current and that the

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people that you appointed to be healthcare proxy,

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power of attorney, successor trustee, are still available

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to do those things.

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And if you move, you can update these

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things, but let them know where they are.

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And in my case, we've gone further where

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I have told her, call Chris Boyd.

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Like, yeah, there you go.

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You know, like, but no, here's to someone

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who can step.

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This is a great place to start.

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I think when it comes to thinking about

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clients and who they should, they should have

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a little laundry list of where they've got

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the name, address, phone number, email, maybe of

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certain kinds of people.

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So who is that estate planning attorney that

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they should call when it comes time to

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deal with either kind of circumstance and incapacity

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or passing?

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Who's your financial planner, investment advisor?

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Who's your tax preparer, accountant, CPA, whatever you,

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you know, use in this process.

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Who handles your life insurance?

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Is there a single agent?

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Is it multiple companies you deal with directly?

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How do you contact them, right?

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Maybe policy numbers to go with those kinds

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of account numbers to go with those kinds

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of things.

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We'll come back to that.

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Do we have a lender?

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Is there a mortgage?

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Is there car loans or whatever?

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You know, who do we owe money to?

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Who do we have a banking relationship with?

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We, you know, we may have one bank,

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maybe we have five banks.

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Do I know where all the banking money

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is, right?

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Or whatever it might be.

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And if it's in the case of investments,

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maybe it's not one person, maybe it's multiple

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people, right?

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Or firms, if you deal with them directly.

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You know, I think there's other things too,

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Jeff, like what about the intangible stuff of

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like, who do I call if I need

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to repair something?

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Yeah.

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Who's the handyman helper or whatever that I

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would use?

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Well, it used to be, you know, I'd

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call Jeff or, you know, like, hey Jeff,

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this door is squeaking.

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Who do I call now?

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Right?

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You know, that kind of thing.

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Sorry, I moved.

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Yeah.

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No, you know what I mean?

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No, but it's about keeping that list fresh

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as well, like looking at it.

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Yeah.

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You need to think of new possibilities in

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the case you move.

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Who's a plumber?

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Who's a yard care?

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I don't know.

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You get pest control, whatever it might be,

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right?

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There's a laundry list of, you know, maybe

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some people have an alarm service or automotive

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care for a lot of times trustworthy auto

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care.

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Those are a few of the things that

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come to my mind, you know, just on

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the, who do I call list?

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Um, but, um, there's probably a variety of

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other things that I haven't thought of, but,

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um, I think you could also maybe step

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back and say, who has a key to

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my house?

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Who has access to the home?

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Are there neighbors, friends that have access?

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Are there family members?

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Are there, is that, do we still want

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that?

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You know, it could be a different, oh,

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I didn't think of it too.

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Like if you had a pet who's handling

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the, oh, we have a pet sitter and

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geez, who is that?

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If, when it comes to an estate plan,

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you know, have you completed it with an

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updated it within the last three years?

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Um, three years are kind of arbitrary, but

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you know, is it, is it recent is

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kind of my point, is it current?

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I'd even add something to that.

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I totally agree with you, but like at

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least once a year, the couple in this

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case, or the individual, if you're, if you're

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living by yourself, but go over that document

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yourself.

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Like just look at it.

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I'm not saying you need to change it

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every year, but like, I think it's super

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common that life changes.

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Like maybe you have a relative who passed

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and they're not in the estate plan.

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So does that estate plan still work without

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that person being in it?

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Or who's the successor trustee or successor executor?

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And do those people know what you want?

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Cause that's a real missing, missing piece of

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this, you know, healthcare issues, right?

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Yeah.

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You're at the lawyer's office and you say,

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who's, you know, your brother or someone else

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is saying, who do you think you'd like

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as your healthcare proxy?

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And you list somebody actually need to talk

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to those people.

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And if something, no, do they know what

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your wishes are?

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Keep me alive at all costs.

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Cause when you're dead, you're dead.

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Or is it, well, quality of life, I

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want to, you know if I'm, you know,

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these kinds of nuances, I've heard people make

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good cases for different thoughts on this, you

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know, one way versus the other.

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And I think, you know, you need to

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have that clarity of what is their intention.

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And it may not be the same person,

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you know, for your trustee and your healthcare

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proxy power attorney, cause different people in your,

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in your family, in your life have different

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skill sets.

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But the greater point is I'm saying, look

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at those documents and say, you know, let's

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say you had a change in your health

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in the last year that might change some

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of this discussion with your healthcare proxy.

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Just make sure your documents are updated for

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what you need them.

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And then go to the attorney every three

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or so years and make sure it's updated

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legally.

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Yeah.

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Things change every year.

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And so if you do this every year,

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if you look at the list of what

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are my bills, what are my assets, what

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are my liabilities, all the things that you

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listed and look at your healthcare with your,

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with your spouse, if you have a spouse

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do this at least once a year, it's

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a process that will won't take long, but

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you can make sure it's updated and everybody

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understands.

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I know Keith is doing a maintenance plan

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more and more of these days so that

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people can update it as frequently as is

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needed, you know, not just every so often.

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Russ, you look like you had something to

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add.

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00:21:20,820 --> 00:21:20,920
Yeah.

538
00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:22,320
I was going to say like, it's kind

539
00:21:22,320 --> 00:21:24,220
of to that point of, you know, reviewing

540
00:21:24,220 --> 00:21:27,040
it, uh, reviewing your estate plan together with

541
00:21:27,040 --> 00:21:30,000
your spouse or other family member, whoever it

542
00:21:30,000 --> 00:21:30,380
may be.

543
00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:33,040
I think it's really important to not just

544
00:21:33,040 --> 00:21:35,040
write all this stuff out like you're talking

545
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,960
about Jeff, but have an active engaged conversation

546
00:21:37,960 --> 00:21:39,500
with the person who might not be as

547
00:21:39,500 --> 00:21:41,560
involved, whether it be the repairs in the

548
00:21:41,560 --> 00:21:42,480
house or the finances.

549
00:21:43,200 --> 00:21:45,540
Um, don't just leave it until you're gone.

550
00:21:45,780 --> 00:21:48,100
Like have that conversation ongoing where you're like,

551
00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:50,020
it doesn't have to be every day, but

552
00:21:50,020 --> 00:21:52,140
to just kind of get, you know, everyone

553
00:21:52,140 --> 00:21:53,780
on the same page, what we're, what we're

554
00:21:53,780 --> 00:21:55,460
talking about here so that when they're looking

555
00:21:55,460 --> 00:21:58,360
at the form, God forbid something would happen.

556
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,500
It's not like, Oh wait, I wonder what

557
00:22:00,500 --> 00:22:01,840
this has to do with.

558
00:22:01,900 --> 00:22:03,600
It made sense to the person writing it,

559
00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:04,800
but not so much as the person reading

560
00:22:04,800 --> 00:22:05,060
it.

561
00:22:05,360 --> 00:22:06,420
Uh, that's another thing.

562
00:22:06,820 --> 00:22:08,760
And this applies the list we were talking

563
00:22:08,760 --> 00:22:13,600
about before about bills or important people to

564
00:22:13,600 --> 00:22:13,960
contact.

565
00:22:14,180 --> 00:22:15,960
This is, I think that list is also

566
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:19,840
appropriate for your executor and your successor trustee.

567
00:22:19,960 --> 00:22:21,680
I mean, not just your spouse cause it,

568
00:22:22,120 --> 00:22:24,200
God forbid, but something could happen to both

569
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:25,920
of you in this scenario at the same

570
00:22:25,920 --> 00:22:26,400
time.

571
00:22:26,680 --> 00:22:28,940
And you have these backup individuals in your

572
00:22:28,940 --> 00:22:31,820
documents, but if they know nothing about your

573
00:22:31,820 --> 00:22:34,660
financial world and you've asked them to be

574
00:22:34,660 --> 00:22:38,560
a successor trustee or, you know, alternate executor,

575
00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,020
that's a big burden on them.

576
00:22:41,120 --> 00:22:43,880
Just starting with, okay, I have this job

577
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:44,380
to do.

578
00:22:45,100 --> 00:22:46,820
I know nothing about them.

579
00:22:46,940 --> 00:22:48,800
So at least provide them the list to

580
00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,900
call this lawyer, this, this financial advisor, this

581
00:22:52,900 --> 00:22:56,320
CPA, and you know, just those three insurance

582
00:22:56,320 --> 00:22:59,920
agent, maybe those individuals will be able to

583
00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:04,360
help your successor, trustee, executor, at least start

584
00:23:04,360 --> 00:23:07,880
the process of fulfilling the duties that you've

585
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:08,660
asked them to do.

586
00:23:10,180 --> 00:23:10,660
Yeah.

587
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:11,280
Good points.

588
00:23:11,500 --> 00:23:13,240
Um, this all came up cause I, I

589
00:23:13,240 --> 00:23:17,360
saw a colleague, um, of mine, uh, was

590
00:23:17,360 --> 00:23:22,040
promoting for his clientele, um, a binder with

591
00:23:22,040 --> 00:23:23,320
a lot of these kinds of things.

592
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:24,520
I was like, that's a great idea.

593
00:23:24,660 --> 00:23:26,920
I really want to make sure we talk

594
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,440
about some of these things and perhaps, uh,

595
00:23:29,440 --> 00:23:31,380
piggyback on that kind of a good idea.

596
00:23:32,120 --> 00:23:34,060
You guys have made some great points.

597
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:37,220
One of the things that, um, we had

598
00:23:37,220 --> 00:23:39,380
in the office this week was someone who

599
00:23:39,380 --> 00:23:41,320
said they did their prepaid funeral.

600
00:23:42,680 --> 00:23:45,320
And, um, that might be something to make

601
00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:47,260
note of some of those details.

602
00:23:47,940 --> 00:23:51,360
If, um, your kids don't know that there

603
00:23:51,360 --> 00:23:56,240
has been plans made, um, you know, that

604
00:23:56,240 --> 00:23:59,640
could be a lost, uh, opportunity, you know,

605
00:23:59,740 --> 00:24:01,180
to definitely see that happening.

606
00:24:01,460 --> 00:24:01,980
You passed away.

607
00:24:02,080 --> 00:24:02,920
You didn't tell anybody.

608
00:24:02,920 --> 00:24:06,700
I mean, the reading of the estate plan

609
00:24:06,700 --> 00:24:09,600
or even a letter, it's too late.

610
00:24:09,660 --> 00:24:12,620
They've already, they've already sent you married.

611
00:24:12,700 --> 00:24:12,980
Yeah.

612
00:24:13,140 --> 00:24:13,400
Yeah.

613
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:14,020
Literally.

614
00:24:14,240 --> 00:24:14,420
Right.

615
00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:15,520
Yeah, exactly.

616
00:24:15,680 --> 00:24:17,740
And you find that somebody paid $15,000

617
00:24:17,740 --> 00:24:19,780
for this service at the funeral home next

618
00:24:19,780 --> 00:24:20,060
door.

619
00:24:21,080 --> 00:24:21,180
Right.

620
00:24:21,380 --> 00:24:21,540
Yeah.

621
00:24:21,700 --> 00:24:23,700
And in that instance, you know, we were

622
00:24:23,700 --> 00:24:26,120
talking about like, there was a whole process.

623
00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,060
They, they went to the funeral home.

624
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:31,960
They, they picked out the casket and did

625
00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:32,980
all the particulars.

626
00:24:33,380 --> 00:24:35,440
And if they pass and no one knew,

627
00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:36,900
then you might not even go to the

628
00:24:36,900 --> 00:24:41,660
right place or exactly what they had in

629
00:24:41,660 --> 00:24:43,640
mind or have the service that they wanted.

630
00:24:43,860 --> 00:24:43,960
Right.

631
00:24:43,980 --> 00:24:44,240
Yeah.

632
00:24:44,300 --> 00:24:45,020
And that's another thing.

633
00:24:45,140 --> 00:24:47,660
I know my mom is always like taking

634
00:24:47,660 --> 00:24:49,460
notes from, uh, Oh, that was a really

635
00:24:49,460 --> 00:24:50,260
nice song for.