July 25, 2025

Memories Over Money: A New Take on Wealth Transfer

Memories Over Money: A New Take on Wealth Transfer

Memories Over Money: A New Take on Wealth Transfer – Chris Boyd, Russ Ball and Jeff
Perry dig into a wide variety of issues and conflicts concerning how people plan and spend, or
don’t spend their accumulated wealth. Topics include funding a college education, paying for
long-term care, or simply treating your family with gifting; there are plenty of ways to use your
hard-earned wealth. In the context of a comprehensive financial plan, the trio offers advice and
best practices to ensure your desired legacy and financial priorities are achieved. See below a
related Kiplinger article.
#financialplanning #investing #stocks #bonds #stockmarket #legacy #gifting #goals
#estateplanning
https://www.kiplinger.com/retirement/estate-planning/holding-wealth-why-retirees-shouldnt-
focus-on-leaving-an-inheritance
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Welcome to Something More with Chris Boyd.

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Chris Boyd is a certified financial planner, practitioner,

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and senior vice president and financial advisor at

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Wealth Enhancement Group, one of the nation's largest

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registered investment advisors.

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We call it Something More because we'd like

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to talk not only about those important dollar

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and cents issues, but also the quality of

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life issues that make the money matters matter.

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Here he is, your fulfillment facilitator, your partner

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in prosperity, advising clients on Cape Cod and

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across the country.

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Here's your host, Jay Christopher Boyd.

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Welcome, and thanks for joining us for an

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episode of Something More with Chris Boyd.

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I'm here with Jeff Perry and Russ Ball.

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We are all of the AMR team at

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Wealth Enhancement.

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So we're going to talk a little bit

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about some of the challenges of trying to

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decide, do I spend my retirement money and

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try to make the most of the experiences

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and share that with my family and so

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forth?

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Or do I try to preserve wealth and

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pass that on as well?

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Both valuable considerations, but a lot to think

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about in trying to find the balance of

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how do we approach all this?

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So, Jeff, where would you like us to

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begin today?

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Well, I think you said it pretty well.

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We do have clients that come in and

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say, I want to spend my last nickel

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on my way out the door, right?

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And so I want to live, basically, I

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want to live as large as I can.

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During my retirement, I saved, you know, I'm

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not interested in inheritances.

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Maybe I don't have people I want to

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leave it to.

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Maybe they don't think that's the right decision

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for their family.

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And then there's the other group who are

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nervous about spending anything because they're afraid that

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they're going to have to help a family

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member or they're going to have some unexpected

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expense along the way.

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long-term care at the end of their

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life.

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And they're just really hesitant and living well

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below their means in their retirement because of

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I'm going to say fear again, that fear

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that they're not going to have enough money

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when they need it the most.

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We have a client who refers to her

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decisions about thinking about wealth and wealth transfer

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generationally as skiing.

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She refers to it as spending her kid's

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inheritance, S-K-I.

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But she also talks about that in the

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context of shared experiences.

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So she's taken all her kids on a

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one-on-one trip or in different places

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around the world, probably more than once at

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She has taken her grandchildren on trips.

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that will be memories and relationship memories, but

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also broadening their horizons and impacting their view

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of the world to some extent.

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And so very valid, right?

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I do think there is a generational context.

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When you think about the greatest generation and

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their passing, it seems to me that it's

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been a priority to that generation to try

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to leave the next generation, perhaps those are

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Gen Xers, or maybe those are boomers rather,

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where they're receiving wealth that they can build

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It's leaving them some additional resources to help

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them be better off and to help the

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next generation have a leg up, that kind

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of mindset.

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talk to boomers, it's not always as big

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a priority.

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I read an article recently that said only

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22% of boomers plan to leave an

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inheritance.

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I don't find that to be the norm

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of the people we speak with.

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I find most of the clientele we interact

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with really think they would like to leave

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money to their next generation.

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But there's something like $84 trillion that's expected

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to transfer generationally over the next 20 years.

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That's an astounding amount of wealth.

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kind of priorities of, will people be looking

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to spend or will they be looking to

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look to efficiently transition wealth from one generation

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to the next?

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Generationally, right?

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When we're doing our financial plans for our

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clients, one of the questions with the software

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that I typically use is, how much do

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you want to leave for your inheritance?

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clients in the financial planning process are pretty

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quickly answered, but that one's not quickly answered.

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It's really one that people haven't, most people,

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I'm using generalities, but most people struggle with

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because it's actually, you can say you'd like

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to leave an inheritance or you don't, but

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when it comes down to assigning a dollar

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figure to it, it becomes really an opportunity

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for reflection and it points out the importance

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of a comprehensive plan and including all these

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things.

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way, not to be repetitive, but if you're

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not intentional about your plan and have it

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in writing and have it reviewed and look

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at it with your advisor and your estate

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planning attorney, you're likely not going to achieve

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the goals that you set out to.

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Having said that, I'm surprised at that 22

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% number.

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I would have guessed it was going to

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be like a 50-50 split with people,

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whether or not they wanted to leave a

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sizable inheritance or not.

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a few conversations we've had with clients recently

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where it's not as much about the inheritance

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that they leave behind, but gifting now.

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A lot of clients do want to provide

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gifts for their kids, for their grandkids, whatever

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it might be, while they're living.

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This article that Chris referenced talks a little

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bit about that, but then it's like shifting

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priorities of do you withhold those gifts so

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you can make sure you're taken care of,

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and you and your spouse, whatever it may

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be, or can that become part of the

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giving plan?

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So it's like trying to figure out the

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balance of is there a gift amount that

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should be going out each month?

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Do we talk about it as an inheritance

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when you pass away?

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So these are all the different things you

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have to consider in the financial planning process.

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I think that is true.

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I think a lot of times people think,

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well, why do I want to wait till

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I'm gone for them to have the benefit

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of some of this wealth in terms of

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gifting, like you're talking about, that they can

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enjoy helping family get into a home or

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paying for kids' education or whatever the priority

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might be in a given instance, that it

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can give them satisfaction around that, that people

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enjoy.

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We've encountered this.

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Let's talk about this cultural phenomenon, though.

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You mentioned it, Jeff, at the outset, the

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idea of die with zero, kind of spend

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your last penny.

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Die Broke.

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It's a book.

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Die Broke.

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It's a movement, right?

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And there's also this whole FIRE movement, Financial

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Independence, Retire Early, this idea that people want

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to, I think we see this among millennials

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and younger, this notion that they want to

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live to the fullest, not work till they're

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older and not able to see the world,

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but they want to do that along the

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way, that kind of mindset at the same

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time or take sabbaticals more frequently or things

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that are kind of, I mean, on the

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one hand, you go, geez, that's kind of

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brilliant.

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On the other hand, it's like, is that

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really practical?

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It's kind of dangerous.

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So I can see the appeal at the

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same time.

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I guess I fall more into that mindset

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that I see the value and the virtue

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of trying to help along the way some,

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but not to the point where it becomes,

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there's a dependence upon that and an expectation

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surrounding that.

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You don't want a lack of drive or

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a lack of seeking financial independence from the

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next generation.

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And I look at my experience, I've benefited

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from help from my parents along the way

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and family members, grandparents.

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We talked about these stories along the way

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at times.

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So Kristen's grandfather was great with helping us

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get some college education money started, that kind

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of stuff.

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done that.

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continue that at the same time.

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And I'd like to leave this planet with

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some of the fruit of my efforts to

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help the next generation and leave them in

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a position where they might have a little

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more resources.

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My goal is not to die with zero.

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In fact, the problem with that, let's talk

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about the challenge of this goal.

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When are you going to die?

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If you knew the date, your end date,

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your expiration date, well, this planning becomes much

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more attainable.

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You can kind of plan that a lot

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better.

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Have you asked AI about this, Chris?

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Maybe they can tell me, right?

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Based on my diet and exercise and be

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like, oh, yeah, here you go.

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Here's your number.

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There is actually an app out there.

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I saw Death Clock started on the news

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last week and it asks you 25, I

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know I'm going on a tangent.

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I apologize.

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It asks you 25 or so questions.

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And it gives you the date of your

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death.

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I'm going to write this down.

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I need to know.

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I'm not sure I want to know, but

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I'm dying January 26, 2054.

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Oh, you got a long time.

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I'll be 90.

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Yeah, nice.

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I'm not relying on the Death Clock for

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my financial plan.

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It doesn't come with any guarantees.

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But it's a good point, that notion that

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you can live a long time.

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We don't know how healthy we'll be while

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we're alive.

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What kind of costs will be associated with

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it?

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What was this article that inspired our conversation

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here?

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It was a Kiplinger's article, and it's available

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online.

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The title is Holding Wealth, Why Retirees Shouldn't

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Focus on Leaving an Inheritance.

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So we'll reference that in the show notes

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if anybody's interested in the article itself.

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But it did reference the costs of long

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-term annual healthcare costs.

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I think this is really nursing home long

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-term care.

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These are national averages.

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So when it refers to the cost of

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a nursing home as $127,750, that's a

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national average.

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In places where we live, Massachusetts, Florida, the

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costs are higher.

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Now, Florida is a little more reasonable than

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it is in Massachusetts.

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If you live in the coast, if you

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live in DC, you live in New York,

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you live in California's Los Angeles or San

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Francisco areas, costs of living are great, are

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high.

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And you're going to have higher costs for

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these kind of expenses.

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In our area, we estimate it's about $180

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,000 for a nursing home for one year.

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Assisted living, they say $70,000.

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It's probably closer to $130,000 in our

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area.

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That's an estimate.

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It depends on, again, what's the level of

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care.

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My point is, we don't know, even with

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our death clock health.

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That's right.

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That's right.

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Didn't tell me how many years I might

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need some assistance.

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Yeah.

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What your health will be along the way

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and what's going to be a need for

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health demands, healthcare costs.

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The idea of trying to spend your last

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dollar on your last day is appealing, but

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I'd like to have a little bit of

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a cushion, a little bit of resource, because

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I really don't want to have to rely

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on state resources for the quality of my

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healthcare if I were to be in need

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of this kind of a circumstance.

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You talked about longevity with the death clock.

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We talk to people all the time and

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they have opinions about how long they're going

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to live.

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They usually underestimate what they live.

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Yeah.

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No man in my family has ever lived

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past blank.

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Of course, in those family members, maybe they

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smoked or drank or heavily whatever, had jobs

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or lifestyle considerations that may be different from

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you.

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Maybe they had different medical technologies and resources

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than you might have at a given moment.

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These are variables and that's not to say

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that those aren't relevant and real concerns.

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Let's face it, if you see that family

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members have died at a young age because

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of heart disease, as an example, or whatever,

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naturally you're going to think, well, my lifespan

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might be shorter.

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We have to think in terms of, particularly

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for family, if we're married, not only our

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own life expectancy, but how long will this

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money be needed for the combined circumstances of

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a spouse who may live a long time

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as well.

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This really is the biggest unknown in a

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financial plan.

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We do a lot of projections, cashflow projections.

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As you mentioned earlier, Russ, we put in

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maybe the goal to give money away.

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We can model that.

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Can I spend so much a year on

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vacations?

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How often do I buy a car?

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I'd like to do the following gifts every

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year or periodically or have this fund that

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I can give away a certain amount.

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We can model all that out.

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We have specific ages that we default to

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for how long we expect or want to

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plan for, depending on the circumstances, meaning how

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long we think they're going to live and

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be very conservative about that.

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This question of are you going to have

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a major healthcare issue, a long-term care

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issue where you need either home care or

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a facility is really the reason why you

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shouldn't try to die broke, in my opinion.

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You need to plan for this somehow.

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We talk about this on other shows, but

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whether that's an insurance policy that is on

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the side of your financial plan or if

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it's a dedicated bucket of money, whatever it

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is, not having a plan on how you

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might deal with it, if it happens, this

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is one of those things I think that

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we commonly think happens to other people.

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It's not going to happen to me.

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If something happens to me, my wife's going

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to take care of me or something happens

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to my wife, I'm going to take care

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of her at home.

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We're not going to have any of that

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expense.

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It just doesn't typically work out when you

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have that level of need that the spouse

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or a family member is able to actually

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take care of the person adequately in their

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home.

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I think the other piece too is even

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in the plan, you can say, all right,

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here are the variables that I'm going to

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account for.

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Let's say we have a three-year long

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-term care expense, we have living expenses, whatever.

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We can put that all in there and

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say, all right, how much can we take

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from the portfolio to end up with zero

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dollars?

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We can create that math equation and come

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up with an answer.

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But then there's all those other uncertainties.

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Even if you take away long-term care,

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I'm just racking my brain for some examples.

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For example, if a kid goes through a

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divorce and then you're helping the kid go

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through the divorce or helping them with their

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kids, or if a sibling has some health

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needs and they don't have the funds to

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cover it.

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We have clients who help their siblings out.

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There's a lot of things that you might

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not be able to account for in a

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plan.

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Not to say that all these uncertainties should

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scare people to not spend any money, but

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at the same time, there are reasons to

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want to have something and not nothing when

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you die or at a later stage of

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life.

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Yeah.

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The article you referenced, Chris, its focus is

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to put yourself first.

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It's not so much not planning.

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Of course, the article has components of financial

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planning included in it as a good financial

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planning article would, but it's to find a

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way in your financial plan to put yourself

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first and do those things that you want

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to do.

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That's also part of a plan.

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Sometimes people get mired down, and our conversations

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do too, about what happens if this happens,

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what happens if that happens.

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But that's not the only components of a

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financial plan.

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You should put those things that you want

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to do.

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We always talk about travel.

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That's an obvious one that people can think

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about.

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Or if it's helping families, when you are

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developing your comprehensive financial plan, all of these

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things, the good things and the scary things

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should be in it.

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I shouldn't go through a whole episode without

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saying my favorite word.

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It gives you permission to do those things.

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I knew you knew what was coming.

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But it does.

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If you were working with someone that takes

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the time, if you're working with an advisor

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who takes the time to develop this financial

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plan and review it with you at least

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annually, and you have this desire to make

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a big a big gift at a wedding,

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or make a gift so someone can buy

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a first house, or help someone with their

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college, or help a sibling, and it's in

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your plan, you can make a quick call

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to your advisor and say, I'm thinking about

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helping my sister.

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She needs $20,000 for X, Y, or

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Z.

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And you just test the plan a little

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bit and say, yep, it's in there.

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You can do that.

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Or maybe you shouldn't do that.

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All these topics to me keep underlying the

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benefits of a plan and how it can

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bring you peace of mind.

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It shouldn't make you wary at the end

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of the day.

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It should make you feel confident that you're

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ready, that you can spend a certain level

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of your wealth, do the things that are

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in your plan without having to wonder, what's

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it going to be like at the end

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of my plan?

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Yeah, great point.

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And I think you've already made the point,

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both of you, that this can really be

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done in a way through a financial plan

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to help you model what you plan to

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spend, what if I want to do this

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extra for a gift, or for fun, or

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whatever it may be, these options that you

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might think about, and stress test for costs

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of healthcare or market fluctuations or whatever it

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might be, increased taxes and higher inflation.

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We do a variety of these kind of

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things.

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But this is where you start with all

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this.

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Start with a good financial planning.

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We use some great software, but I would

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encourage our listeners to start with a good

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advisor, a fiduciary, and obviously we're here to

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help if you'd like to talk to us.

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But get some assistance in the process to

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help guide you through the whole process to

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make sure that you're approaching it in a

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way that is deliberate, considers all the variables,

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or at least many of them.

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I suppose you can't think of everything.

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But try to go through some of the

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variations and stress tests and make sure that

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you've got a plan that works.

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So that's an important part of this.

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Jeff, this year, over the last year or

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so, you've been a big proponent of family

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communication.

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And that's another maybe element of this that's

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worth taking a minute or two to talk

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about so that there aren't unrealistic expectations for

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the next generation.

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What are you intending to do?

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So there's no assumption of a massive inheritance

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or something, and that's not coming or whatever.

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I think one of the things that's important

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in the process is what we're trying to

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do, I think, sometimes is model behavior and

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extend our values.

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And maybe that's as my client I referred

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to earlier is doing by saying, hey, I

536
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want to have these shared memories and life

537
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experiences and instill values with you.

538
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Whatever that is for you, that's part of

539
00:24:01,610 --> 00:24:05,610
what you're trying to communicate when you think

540
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about your responsible financial planning and potentially conveyance

541
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of wealth as well or not, whatever those

542
00:24:19,170 --> 00:24:21,030
choices you make are.

543
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And that might lead to talking a little

544
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bit about estate and estate planning discussion a

545
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little bit as well.

546
00:24:29,350 --> 00:24:31,590
Yeah, I think any good financial plan has

547
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to have an estate planning component to it.

548
00:24:34,570 --> 00:24:36,070
Not that we're going to do your estate

549
00:24:36,070 --> 00:24:38,210
plan, but we're going to work with your

550
00:24:38,210 --> 00:24:40,450
estate planning attorney to make sure that your

551
00:24:40,450 --> 00:24:42,270
financial plan and your estate plan are working

552
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together, not opposite against each other.

553
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And to your point about communications, thanks for

554
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bringing that up, because I think it's not

555
00:24:50,290 --> 00:24:53,890
only the things that you mentioned about you're

556
00:24:53,890 --> 00:24:55,430
not going to get an inheritance, son.

557
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Good luck.

558
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I'm joking, right?

559
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Whatever it is.

560
00:25:02,130 --> 00:25:05,550
And when I bring this up, I don't

561
00:25:05,550 --> 00:25:07,570
mean that you're going to have spreadsheets all

562
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over the table and say, if I die

563
00:25:10,150 --> 00:25:13,210
in 2054, like the death clock says, this

564
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is your expected inheritance.

565
00:25:16,990 --> 00:25:20,050
But talking about those issues about you don't

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need to worry about us.

567
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We have a plan for our long-term

568
00:25:22,830 --> 00:25:23,970
care if we need it.

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00:25:24,330 --> 00:25:25,850
We have our estate plan.

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This is our estate planning attorney.

571
00:25:27,770 --> 00:25:29,050
We have a financial plan.

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00:25:29,230 --> 00:25:33,250
So if we become incapacitated to handle our

573
00:25:33,250 --> 00:25:35,630
own affairs, this is who we chose.

574
00:25:36,290 --> 00:25:39,110
Maybe it's you, the woman at the table,

575
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or maybe not.

576
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And this is why.

577
00:25:42,090 --> 00:25:43,670
And if we have a healthcare issue, this

578
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is our healthcare proxy.

579
00:25:45,230 --> 00:25:46,170
And this is why.

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00:25:46,570 --> 00:25:48,610
Just putting those things out on the table

581
00:25:48,610 --> 00:25:51,290
not only provides your loved one's peace of

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00:25:51,290 --> 00:25:55,050
mind, which is important, and they know who

583
00:25:55,050 --> 00:25:56,790
to turn to in the event of a

584
00:25:56,790 --> 00:26:01,270
crisis, but it also, I think, prevents strife

585
00:26:01,270 --> 00:26:02,030
in the family.

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00:26:03,170 --> 00:26:05,310
And it takes away, you know, like, did

587
00:26:05,310 --> 00:26:08,650
dad really mean to appoint Sally as the

588
00:26:08,650 --> 00:26:09,350
power of attorney?

589
00:26:09,370 --> 00:26:10,650
That doesn't make sense.

590
00:26:11,590 --> 00:26:15,070
If dad actually explained why Mary is the

591
00:26:15,070 --> 00:26:18,330
power of attorney, because she's local, you know,

592
00:26:18,370 --> 00:26:20,430
she's an attorney, or whatever the, you know,

593
00:26:20,470 --> 00:26:24,130
the reasons that dad has, I think it

594
00:26:24,130 --> 00:26:26,190
just is a gift to your family to

595
00:26:26,190 --> 00:26:28,970
have these plans in place and to let

596
00:26:28,970 --> 00:26:30,710
those people who are involved with those plans

597
00:26:30,710 --> 00:26:32,210
know your reasoning behind it.

598
00:26:33,310 --> 00:26:36,110
I'll just share a quick anecdote.

599
00:26:36,390 --> 00:26:39,830
Had a call yesterday with a client looking

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00:26:39,830 --> 00:26:41,870
to connect with an estate planning attorney.

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And, you know, so we started talking a

602
00:26:43,730 --> 00:26:46,570
little bit about their direction of their plan,

603
00:26:46,630 --> 00:26:49,370
because sometimes, you know, the one hand you

604
00:26:49,370 --> 00:26:53,430
think, well, I want to preserve wealth for

605
00:26:53,430 --> 00:26:54,370
the next generation.

606
00:26:54,370 --> 00:26:58,830
I might, maybe I want a Medicaid planning

607
00:26:58,830 --> 00:27:05,810
kind of trust versus one that's less useful

608
00:27:05,810 --> 00:27:09,350
in protecting assets from Medicaid spend down, a

609
00:27:09,350 --> 00:27:12,550
revocable trust, but one that I retain all

610
00:27:12,550 --> 00:27:14,270
the control, I have total access to my

611
00:27:14,270 --> 00:27:15,490
wealth, you know, that kind of thing.

612
00:27:15,750 --> 00:27:16,810
Important issues to people, yeah.

613
00:27:17,070 --> 00:27:19,450
So this directional question of where we go.

614
00:27:20,010 --> 00:27:21,690
And as we talked about it, we said,

615
00:27:21,790 --> 00:27:26,290
well, gee, you know, you have the bulk

616
00:27:26,290 --> 00:27:30,150
of your investment wealth is in retirement accounts,

617
00:27:30,810 --> 00:27:32,310
IRA, Roth IRA.

618
00:27:32,830 --> 00:27:35,970
So those don't go in a trust anyway.

619
00:27:37,790 --> 00:27:42,550
The house has a mortgage on it.

620
00:27:42,810 --> 00:27:45,050
It's likely to be there for a while.

621
00:27:46,230 --> 00:27:48,910
So, well, maybe that kind of like makes

622
00:27:48,910 --> 00:27:50,670
it less appealing to go down the Medicaid

623
00:27:50,670 --> 00:27:54,410
planning route because, you know, it's not an

624
00:27:54,410 --> 00:27:56,970
unencumbered asset that you could just gift to

625
00:27:56,970 --> 00:28:00,010
a trust or something or somebody else.

626
00:28:00,350 --> 00:28:03,830
So that's not really an approach that makes

627
00:28:03,830 --> 00:28:04,210
sense.

628
00:28:04,510 --> 00:28:05,770
So I was like, well, let's talk it

629
00:28:05,770 --> 00:28:06,330
out a little bit.

630
00:28:06,450 --> 00:28:08,410
And it kind of helped navigate, all right,

631
00:28:08,430 --> 00:28:11,210
well, which direction should we think about for

632
00:28:11,210 --> 00:28:12,150
your planning today?

633
00:28:12,150 --> 00:28:16,690
Not to say that's a forever decision, right?

634
00:28:16,710 --> 00:28:19,830
Because, you know, if your health were to

635
00:28:19,830 --> 00:28:22,090
change or, you know, you had some greater

636
00:28:22,090 --> 00:28:25,370
clarity around, you know, needs or you decided

637
00:28:25,370 --> 00:28:27,310
to pay off the mortgage, okay, well, now

638
00:28:27,310 --> 00:28:29,570
you've got a different set of circumstances.

639
00:28:29,850 --> 00:28:31,930
So in any case, it helps to kind

640
00:28:31,930 --> 00:28:36,310
of help me to help them figure out

641
00:28:36,310 --> 00:28:38,770
which direction are we thinking we want to

642
00:28:38,770 --> 00:28:43,110
go in terms of their planning, given the

643
00:28:43,110 --> 00:28:46,630
bulk of their wealth isn't really subject to

644
00:28:46,630 --> 00:28:49,150
probate and the like, right?

645
00:28:50,950 --> 00:28:52,570
So it's a matter of like whether they

646
00:28:52,570 --> 00:28:54,090
want to do a trust, a will-based

647
00:28:54,090 --> 00:28:55,290
plan or what.

648
00:28:55,790 --> 00:28:58,030
So I didn't want to go too far

649
00:28:58,030 --> 00:28:59,510
to say, oh, this is what you should

650
00:28:59,510 --> 00:29:01,410
do because it's ultimately, you know, we want

651
00:29:01,410 --> 00:29:04,570
to give the lawyer with their expertise the

652
00:29:04,570 --> 00:29:08,750
legal guidance, you know, that the client should

653
00:29:08,750 --> 00:29:10,690
have, but gave a chance to try to

654
00:29:10,690 --> 00:29:13,310
identify which direction, which kind of lawyer should

655
00:29:13,310 --> 00:29:15,910
we be looking for who's maybe the right

656
00:29:15,910 --> 00:29:17,850
fit for these different circumstances.

657
00:29:18,610 --> 00:29:18,710
Yep.

658
00:29:18,890 --> 00:29:23,510
And sometimes when those communications don't happen, the

659
00:29:23,510 --> 00:29:25,470
estate planning attorney may have a whole different

660
00:29:25,470 --> 00:29:28,670
view of what that client's goals are if

661
00:29:28,670 --> 00:29:30,910
they don't have a good understanding of what

662
00:29:30,910 --> 00:29:31,930
their assets are.

663
00:29:32,430 --> 00:29:34,410
Well, I think to your point too, it's

664
00:29:34,410 --> 00:29:38,110
also, we have different disciplines.

665
00:29:38,630 --> 00:29:42,210
The accountant thinks about life through a prism

666
00:29:42,210 --> 00:29:43,270
that they look through.

667
00:29:43,450 --> 00:29:46,130
The estate planning attorney has a view of

668
00:29:46,130 --> 00:29:48,490
what they see and what they're prioritizing.

669
00:29:48,770 --> 00:29:51,450
The insurance agent looks at things through a

670
00:29:51,450 --> 00:29:53,010
prism that they look at through.

671
00:29:53,570 --> 00:29:58,650
So hopefully as the financial planner, fiduciary, you

672
00:29:58,650 --> 00:30:00,210
know, where we can look at it, again,

673
00:30:00,290 --> 00:30:01,990
we have a prism that we look through,

674
00:30:02,230 --> 00:30:04,790
but trying to try to put it all

675
00:30:04,790 --> 00:30:07,370
together in a way that can help the

676
00:30:07,370 --> 00:30:10,330
client navigate those issues and make sense of

677
00:30:10,330 --> 00:30:10,470
it.

678
00:30:10,570 --> 00:30:12,690
Well, good stuff.

679
00:30:12,990 --> 00:30:15,090
Thanks guys for an interesting conversation.

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00:30:15,310 --> 00:30:17,590
I will again, just mention for our listeners,

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00:30:18,210 --> 00:30:21,110
don't hesitate to reach out if you need

682
00:30:21,110 --> 00:30:23,330
a little help in finding direction as it

683
00:30:23,330 --> 00:30:25,410
relates to your planning.

684
00:30:26,430 --> 00:30:28,310
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00:30:28,310 --> 00:30:30,210
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Until next time, everybody keeps striving for something

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